When we try to control every aspect of our lives, we often create resistance to our spiritual growth. Control can come in many forms—micromanaging tasks, chasing perfection, or succumbing to fears about failure or inadequacy. These attempts to control the uncontrollable can block us from moving forward in life and hinder our connection with Spirit. Learning to let go of control and trust in the flow of the universe is crucial in aligning ourselves with our higher purpose.
As humans, we often feel the need to manage every detail of our lives, believing that this will keep us safe or successful. We think that if we control everything, we can avoid failure, pain, or uncertainty. But the truth is that life is filled with unpredictable circumstances—both external and internal—that we simply cannot control. What we can control is how we think and respond to these events.
Take, for example, a typical day filled with disruptions: a guest cancels last minute, unexpected bureaucratic tasks emerge, and even our pets decide to pick fights at home. It’s easy to let these small frustrations derail our mindset and pull us into a spiral of negativity. Our happiness and mental state are more important than the external circumstances. By keeping our mindset where it needs to be, we maintain our personal power and refuse to let outside events ruin our day.
Even when we feel frustration, anger, or anxiety over life's circumstances, it's essential to acknowledge these emotions without letting them take control. Emotions are natural; we are meant to feel them. But by recognizing them and consciously deciding to shift our mindset, we can navigate through difficulties without becoming overwhelmed. It's about feeling what you feel but not letting those feelings define you or your actions.
In my experience, resistance to spiritual growth often comes from attempts to control every little aspect of my life. This resistance can manifest through fears and self-limiting beliefs: fear of failure, fear of not being enough, or fear of stepping outside our comfort zones. These fears can become stumbling blocks that keep us stuck in the same patterns. For instance, when faced with new challenges or opportunities—like a financial task from the Department of Treasury that seems like another level of government control—it’s easy to feel weighed down. But while these events may feel overwhelming, they don’t define who we are or what we can accomplish.
What’s crucial is realizing that our thoughts shape our reality. When we become fixated on control, we limit our ability to grow spiritually. Instead of trying to control every aspect of life, we must learn to surrender to the process. Surrendering doesn’t mean giving up; it means trusting in the divine guidance that is always available to us. It means doing what we can, letting go of what we cannot control, and waiting for Spirit to guide us when the time is right.
Keep moving forward, even when life feels chaotic or uncertain. We often allow external circumstances, like bureaucratic demands or household disruptions, to prevent us from focusing on our personal goals. But when we focus on maintaining a positive, forward-moving mindset, we open ourselves up to new opportunities and growth. Spirit often presents us with the answers we seek in unexpected ways, but if we’re too busy controlling everything, we might miss those messages.
This journey of letting go and trusting the process is not always easy. It can be frightening to step into the unknown, to surrender control, and to trust that the universe has our back. But it is through this surrender that we begin to see just how much more we are capable of. By letting go of control, we allow ourselves to receive more abundance, more love, and more spiritual guidance.
My own experiences—whether they are chaotic mornings or unexpected bureaucratic surprises—are a reminder that life will always present challenges. But we can choose to rise above them by controlling our mindset and focusing on our personal and spiritual growth. The universe is constantly conspiring to help us, and when we surrender to that flow, we align with the greater purpose of our lives.
Ultimately, control is an illusion. By releasing our grip on it, we can step into a space of greater spiritual alignment, personal empowerment, and peace. Through trust and surrender, we open ourselves up to receiving everything the universe has to offer—beyond what our controlled minds can imagine.
