As we step into 2025, it's safe to say that this year has already come in with a bang. If you're like me, January has been a particularly challenging month, full of unexpected events, emotional upheavals, and moments of deep introspection. But despite the rocky start, I firmly believe that 2025 holds the potential for incredible transformation. It is a year of change, and with persistence, our dreams can manifest in ways we never imagined.
Challenges and Growth: A Personal Reflection
The year began with a major disruption in my household. On January 2nd, my partner, Sal, suffered a severe sciatic nerve issue from work, rendering him mostly bedridden. As an Irish woman with a "push through it" mentality, caregiving was a challenge for me. But having dealt with sciatic pain myself during my divorce in 2000, I knew firsthand the debilitating nature of this condition. It forced me to step into a more compassionate role, not just for Sal, but for myself as well.
The challenges didn’t stop there. Navigating the medical system was another battle—his boss initially denied his work injury, delaying treatment. We later found out he actually did have Workman’s Comp, but had been refusing to provide the necessary information. This entire ordeal triggered financial insecurities for me, as my business, like many, experiences slow months in January and February. The stress reached a boiling point, leading to an emotional breakdown, something I rarely allow myself to experience. However, that moment of vulnerability opened up honest conversations with Sal, strengthening our relationship.
Lessons from Leadership and Business Growth
In addition to personal struggles, I faced growing pains in my business. Miscommunications with my virtual assistant made me question my leadership abilities. In moments of doubt, I turned to my coach, David Bayer, who reminded me that our perception of ourselves often lags behind how others see us. He emphasized that persistence is key—success is built in the daily grind, the seemingly monotonous steps that move us closer to our goals.
Despite setbacks, my podcast unexpectedly gained momentum, hitting over 5,000 downloads in January alone. This was a powerful reminder that even when things don’t seem to be progressing as we expect, we are often making leaps in unseen ways. It reaffirmed the importance of trusting the process and staying committed to the work, even when immediate results aren’t evident.
Navigating Friendships and Personal Evolution
A misunderstanding with a close friend also surfaced this month, making me question my connections. I had to remind myself of an important lesson: people are on their own journeys, and sometimes, all we can do is let them. Let them be upset. Let them process their emotions. Let them decide their path. The phrase just let them became my mantra, helping me release the need to control situations and instead, focus on my own alignment.
Growth often feels isolating, but it also creates space for deeper, more aligned relationships. As I evolve, I’m meeting new people who resonate with my journey, and that’s something to celebrate.
Embracing the Process: Persistence and Trust
One of the biggest takeaways from January has been learning to sit with discomfort and observe rather than react. When emotions arise—fear, insecurity, frustration—the best thing we can do is be present with them. In 90 seconds, emotions can dissipate if we allow them to flow rather than suppress them. By observing without attachment, we gain clarity on where these feelings stem from and can consciously choose to release them.
Spirit has been nudging me to slow down and trust that everything is falling into place. I’m using this time to refine my business strategies, automate processes, and deepen my understanding of marketing—an area I once resisted. Instead of viewing marketing as a dreaded task, I’m shifting my mindset to see it as an opportunity to connect and serve.
Taking Back Control: Practical Steps for Change
Beyond mindset shifts, I’m also taking tangible steps to navigate the changing landscape. With rising food costs, I’ve decided to start raising chickens and growing more of my own food. This proactive approach symbolizes a deeper lesson: we are not powerless. We can always find ways to adapt and create solutions, rather than waiting for external circumstances to change.
Similarly, in business, I’m focusing on refining my systems, increasing communication, and building a community. My goal is not just financial success, but creating meaningful connections and making a real impact.
Final Thoughts: Moving Forward with Confidence
2025 is a year of massive transformation, and while the road may feel uncertain, I trust that we are all exactly where we need to be. Challenges will arise, emotions will fluctuate, and obstacles will test our patience—but they are all part of our journey of becoming.
If you find yourself struggling, remember to breathe. Stay focused on your vision, allow yourself grace, and trust that everything is unfolding in your favor. Keep moving toward your dreams with persistence, knowing that every step, no matter how small, is leading you exactly where you need to go.
